P W E T B U K

Second Marriage is a very good option to reset your life after a tragedy of the first relationship. Living again as a couple can prove to be beneficial as well as disastrous if not handled properly.

There are a lot of things to be considered before you finalize the decision of a second marriage. Make sure no hasty decisions are taken so that you can have a happy and smooth second marriage.

* It is very important to analyze your first marriage. Your performance in your previous relationship will create the base for your second marriage. Considering yourself and analyzing your strong and weak points is very essential. Try and get answers to all the unasked questions before you decide to marry again.

* Do not forget to actually think over the fact that what kind of a guy you really want to get married to. It is significant for you to lay down the characteristics you want in your spouse especially in a second marriage. Don't just settle in name or for wrong reasons like desperate need for companionship. Take the singles life to be a way to freedom and not loneliness.

* Second marriage can prove to be an obligation after living a singles life for a period of time. Freedom that you have been enjoying for quite sometime now will be gone. There will be new responsibilities knocking at your door that has to be accepted readily.

* Learn how to avoid differences with your partner. It is important to work hard towards making your second marriage a successful one.

Problems with your new marriage won't occur immediately. Make sure you don't become too demanding or compromising. This may later lead to major problems in the relationship.

Equality and unconditional love and respect are very essential when it comes to a new relationship.

Some positive aspects on how to handle your new marriage includes:

* Showing a positive attitude towards your spouse, life and your relationship is very important. Happiness should not be forced and love should come straight from the heart. Encourage your partner to focus on the relationship as well and make it work equally.

* Keep a good communication level from the start. Be open about your feelings from the very first day. This will help you in strengthening the roots of your relationship. Talk out all your issues whether it's trivial or big. Be a good listener and try and be sensitive to the needs of your partner.

* Accepting each other's weaknesses and differences will help you go a long way and also make your relationship special with your spouse. Also try and respect each others decisions.

* In case of an argument, try and settle things as soon as possible. Make sure it doesn't stretch for too long.

A common religious belief and similar goals can avoid a lot of arguments with your spouse. In case the new spouse has children from the first marriage then try and learn some good step-parenting skills. Make them feel special and comfortable and try and understand how important they are for your partner.

Set your priorities straight and accept them as a part of the family. Be serious and prepared before opting for a second marriage. Don't forget to put sacrifice, love and respect in your agenda.